...because I said so.
My Hero

Found this blog post online and it almost made me cry. I had to repost this. Everyone needs someone to stick up for them, no matter how young or how old. The older brother is nothing less than brave. My hero.

Dear Customer who stuck up for his little brother,

sweetupndown:

you thought I didn’t really notice. But I did. I wanted to high-five you.


Yesterday I had a pair of brothers in my store. One was maybe between 15-17. He was a wrestler at the local high school. Kind of tall, stocky and handsome. He had a younger brother, who was maybe about 10-12 years old. They were talking about finding a game for the younger one, and he was absolutely insisting it be one with a female charcter. I don’t know how many of y’all play games, but that isn’t exactly easy. Eventually, I helped the brothers pick a game called Mirror’s Edge. The youngest was pretty excited about the game, and then he specifically asked me.. “Do you have any girl color controllers?”

I directed him to the only colored controllers we have which includes pink and purple ones. He grabbed the purple one, and informed me purple was his FAVORITE.

The boys had been taking awhile, so their father eventually comes in. He see’s the game, and the controller, and starts in on the youngest about how he needs to pick something different. Something more manly. Something with guns and fighting, and certainly not a purple controller. He tries to convince him to get the new Zombie game “Dead Island.” and the little boy just stands their repeating “Dad, this is what I want, ok?” Eventually it turns into a full blown argument complete with Dad threatening to whoop his son if he doesn’t choose different items.

That’s when big brother stepped in. He said to his Dad “It’s my money, it’s my gift to him, if it’s what he wants I’m getting it for him, and if your gonna hit anyone for it, it’s going to be me.”

Dad just gives his oldest son a strong stern stare down, and then leaves the store. Little brother is crying quietly, I walk over and ruffle his hair (yes this happened all in front of me.) I say “I’m a girl, and I like the color blue, and I like shooting games. There’s nothing wrong with what you like. Even if it’s different that what people think you should.”

Big brother then leans down, kisses little brother on the head, and says “Don’t worry dude.”

They check out and leave, and all I can think is how awesome big brother is, how sweet little brother is, and how Dad ought to be ashamed for trying to make his son any other way.

(Source: sweetupndown9)

anthropologie:

Via: Jeff Hamada
I’m still alive!

What with moving houses, designing and printing an entire wedding invitation suite, designing, printing, assembling, addressing AND mailing bridal shower invitations, 2 kids out of school for the summer, and 2… yes TWO… insane, newly adopted, 8 week old kittens, life has been a little hectic. I’ll be posting regularly very soon! Hopefully after the July 4th holiday.

Now, if you’ll excuse me… I need a nap.

This may sound weird, but I love wrapping presents. I like to use satin or grosgrain ribbon, not that cheap, curling ribbon. Eeyeew.
My gifts have hospital corners.

This may sound weird, but I love wrapping presents. I like to use satin or grosgrain ribbon, not that cheap, curling ribbon. Eeyeew.

My gifts have hospital corners.

This blog is mostly my views, personal accounts, bitching, etc. Be sure to follow my other blog, Style Alchemy! It’s a style & shopping blog I started with one of my very good friends. I try to post daily, but sometimes that doesn’t happen. Oh well… there’s always tomorrow.


…this begins AND concludes our royal wedding coverage. Kthxbai.

…this begins AND concludes our royal wedding coverage. Kthxbai.

(Source: katespadeny)

“HOBOKEN?!? OOOOH! I’M DYIN’!”

Candy Christmas

… to decorate like THIS next Christmas.

Kinda makes you go into a diabetic coma, doesn’t it? I LOVE it!!!

I want a tiny bear-dog.

I want a tiny bear-dog.

style-alchemy:

It’s amazing what iron-ons, a little bit of chiffon fabric & satin ribbon can do for plain ol’ boring cardigans. I think I paid $20 for each of these and spent about $10 in embellishments. The chiffon was sewn on with a basic diagonal basting stitch. (I don’t even know how to sew!)

— Nicki